Hello all--to start out this blog, I thought I would recap everything that has happened until this point.
July 2007--found out we were pregnant!
October 2007--went down to Utah Valley Regional Medical Center (at 16 weeks along) to a doctor's office where an ultrasound technician there does gender only ultrasounds. Found out we were having a GIRL!! SOOOOOOO excited for Callie to have a sister and to have what I have always wanted, two boys and two girls.
November 16, 2007--had my 'real' ultrasound at Dr. Jones' office. The technician said the baby was breech and wasn't getting a very good look at the heart like she wanted to. I told her that we really like to get a good look at the heart because Tom lost a sister and brother at birth to a left ventricle heart defect. She said that she still could not get the look she wanted and that we would be looking at the heart again. I had my regular appointment right after that and Dr. Jones came in and said that he had talked to the technician and that she had some 'concerns' about the outflow of the heart and a couple other things and that they already had an appointment for me down at Maternal/Fetal Medicine at Utah Valley Regional Medical Center to see a Perinatologist and Genetic Counselor!! I thought I had maybe scared the technician by telling her about Tom's brother and sister and that they were just being cautious. As the days turned into weeks, my anxiety definately increased.
December 4, 2007--appointment down at UVRMC. Technician did a detailed ultrasound. Two genetic counselors came in and asked us a bunch of questions. The perinatologist, Dr. Schemmer came in and said that he did see some abnormalities of the heart and wanted to move us to another u/s room to take a better look at the heart. We changed rooms and got a close up view of her heart. It was obvious that the two sides did not look the same. The doctor proceeded to tell us that he thought the baby had Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome and that basically the left side of her heart was underdeveloped and not working properly. This was devastating news and they let Tom and myself have a few minutes alone before we went into his office to discuss our options.
Option #1 Comfort Care. We could choose to just take our baby home and let her die quietly at home which would be from days to a week or two.
Option #2 Heart Transplant. We could try to keep the baby on a special drug that kept her heart going until we could find a newborn donor heart, which is very difficult and would probably require traveling to California.
Option #3 Three Staged Surgery. First surgery would be within the first week of life. The second between 4-6 months. The third surgery between the ages of 2-4 yrs old. We of course have chosen the surgeries and have been researching ever since.
December 14, 2007--Met with Dr. Su, a Pediatric Cardiologist whose technician did a detailed ultrasound of the baby's heart. He confirmed Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome and spent over an hour explaining in detail all of the surgeries. Very nice guy.
I have been to 3 more doctor appointments, everybody is basically monitoring the pregnancy to see how the baby and I are developing. So far, there have been no further complications. We now have a few weeks to countdown to the biggest challenge our little family has ever been through.
11 comments:
I'm so excited you have started a blog! It will be a great outlet for you and a great way to keep us updated without having to tell each detail 100 times! We will be there for you with whatever you need. Your kids are our kids :)
Congrats on FINALLY starting a blog. Marci told me you had one. I told her that the 80's generation is catching up to the
90's generation:). We are keeping you and your little baby girl in our prayers. Any name ideas yet? I vote AVA. If I'd ever had a girl it would have been Ava. Cute family picture!
Wow! I love your new blog!! I can't wait for you to show me how to add photos so mine won't be so BORING! It will be so interesting to share this journey with you - and this way we can share your blog with others so many more prayers will go out for your sweet baby girl.
Look into finding a heart center that performs a large number of the 3-stage sutgeries. The success rate increases depending on the center, based of the lesion, that you go to. Give youselves a fighting chance.
You're facing a monumental, life-changing problem. You guys will pull through this, and there are a lot of people pulling for you and your baby.
Don't give up. Find a good peds heart center and talk to the doctors. Find the doctor that peforms the most 3-stage surgeries and go with him/her. That's your best chance...
You guys are facing a monumental challenge, but you can make it. There are a lot of heart families around the country pulling for you.
I am so happy that you are starting a blog. Now I will know whats going on. We will keep you guys in our prayers!!! Please let us know if we can do anything to help. Our blog is
thetennismasons.blogpsot.com
Gracie, what a perfect little angel you already are...Your family can't wait to kiss those little cheeks....We are thinking of you always...The Homers
Hi Michelle
Thanks for commenting on my blog. Tiff told me about you sweet little baby girl. I would love to help with your boys. Let's set up a day each week that they can come over and play! My boys would love it.
Talk to you soon.
Jenny
Michele:
What a great blog. You and Tiffany did a wonderful job setting it up. We are so proud of you and Tom and the kids. We can't wait to hold Gracie Jean and look forward to that day.
Love
Mom and Gary
I have been "nesting" all day getting ready for the baby to come. We just have a few short weeks until the three kids arrive. (I'd better hide the markers) :)
I know it doesn't seem like we are doing much to help now, but we are all gearing up for March. We will be ready and willing to help in any way we can. Isn't it a miracle we all live so close together!!!
It will be nice to check on Gracie whenever we want through this blog!
Gledhill Family--
I just found your blog by searching for blogs with HLHS in them... I am just about a week behind you with my pregnancy and am having a little girl with HLHS as well. We know what you are going through!! We are trying to keep our situation updated on our blog as well if you'd be interested...tanandave.blogspot.com. I will check yours and hope for the best for you and your baby. Just wanted you to know that I feel your anxiety and fears!
Avery
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